Opal Siren

My life in dreams

May I please ask for a comment…oops a decision!!!

I am terrible at making decisions. It always takes me longer than most people to make decisions, and to be quite honest, I change my mind constantly. The minute I come to a decision, I feel that I enter a war zone. Millions of other decisions start to hunt me with their knives, shots guns, machine guns and sniper rifles. There are nights I do not sleep well, because I spend it bathing in anxiety and fighting a bloody war with my thoughts.

  • To be or not to be?
  • Highlights or natural hair?
  • straight or curly?
  • To finish y degree or start running like a bat out of hell?

May I mention that my husband does not make matters any better. He often puzzles me with questions like:

  • “Where should I ask to be stationed next?”
  • “Should I stay as a mechanic or change careers in the Navy?”
  • “Do you want to live in Florida, Utah, NY, CA or AZ?”………
  • “Forget those places, do you want to move to Japan?”

I know part of life is to make decisions and enjoy or suffer the consequences. However, part of my life journey is to learn how to make decisions or better ones, and not be so anxious to the point of  going completely nuts.

By the way I don’t want to make a decision for anyone, but if anyone is reading any of these posts, comments are certainly welcomed!!!

Hello?  Anyone out there???? 

Happy Reading!!!!

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